I've discovered something..
That I can't rely on other people or the surrounding to make me happy.
I have to be able to make myself happy.
And in order to make other people happy, I have to be happy.
Because you can't give people what you don't have.
And when I rely on other people to make me happy,
If they are unable to make me happy, then everyone is going to be unhappy.
So I have to make myself happy.
I was able to understand this concept after reading an article by Kak Ina (SOLUSI isu 25) and watched an episode of Oprah.